Insecurities and complications in life …..

In one of the earlier blogs I mentioned that life is just like movie.. some find it good.. some find it funny some find it worthless some find it sad … Yet we still live it and we still watch movies. However there is one thing that has always confused me and I haven’t even figured what exactly is the reason and what is the solution for it . Or maybe I have figured out the reason but surely not the solution. I will pose the situation and then tell the reason which is so complicated that it inturn makes it the problem .
Say for example u want a girlfriend. So u’ll look for a potential partner. Then u will decide to tell her and if she says yes, that’s cool . So lets say the first step is complete and u finally d find urself a girlfriend. So the insecurity here was that might never be able to have a girlfriend. So now step 2 which makes it a bit ccomplex is that of how the future is Is it safe? U want her to be always urs and it leads to different human emotions , jealousy , anger , sadness, etc. SO the possible solution u will look is marriage . Say you achieved that too and now you are married . the future aspect which was a reason was ur insecurity will grow in size in step 3 . Your now future tension will be that of stability .. So u get urself a good job , u open a savings account and invest money here ad there. You then have kids to give urself the tag of happy family . Say you achieved that too , now te insecurity u will have will be that of ur kids futue. Will they be able to support you and ur wife and various other things?

So the catch here is nothing is certain about our future but still we try everything to make it certain yet we fail miserabely at it. The dichotomy of the situation is that if u don’t do it u will lose sure shot.But there I no sign of wining. So in a nutshell u r doing it to lose coz everytime u do something u’ll end up doing the same thing with a greater magnitude. So why do it ? coz thereis no other option. So u have only 2 options to lose and to do sumthing and still lose?I am not that pessimistic as of now that these are 2 only possible ways to go bout in life. Life is so complicated that I am very sure we will have other ways to go bout it . Yo have tofigure it out ..I am still on my way of exploring them .